 Wysłany: Pon 9:20, 09 Maj 2011 Temat postu: Jordan Cool Greys Some Things Can’t Be Understood |
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| ? Losing a loved one unexpectedly and prematurely, especially a child or mate of 50 years.
? Becoming unemployed through no fault of your own, in your only career. ? Having a child fail miserably in life, despite your good efforts to The problems in life that have always bothered me most are the “why” questions and the ones tempting me to try to uncover the real purpose of something, or interpreting the motivations of others, especially when they affect me so negatively and harmfully. Take the example of bad things seeming to unfairly pile up on us, despite the courageous and noble effort to be a good person doing good. Going through a very dark tunnel desperately looking for the light at the end of it or trying to get past a brick wall and not getting anywhere, is a dreadful experience and probably one of the most hopeless and helpless challenges we can face in life: You can’t understand some things, You may think you can, But you really can’t, Especially the why questions, Other people’s motivations, And the purpose of things; There is a clever way though, In living the answers,Cool Greys NLP Pattern - Self Esteem Quick Fix, And doing a few simple things― Growing some patience, Thinking a little differently, Relaxing your expectations, And extending your time frame; In the meantime,Cool Greys Liquidity is King,Jordan Cool Greys, be more generous With your love and compassion, For those lost in a dark tunnel, Or stuck behind a brick wall, Who don’t have your understanding. Since most self-talk thinking is unconscious, conscious thinking probably isn’t the way to unravel real understanding of perplexing problems in life, like our short list above. To do this, we have to make a major transformation in our consciousness, which involves a much different paradigm of time. This is what I imagine all the hullabaloo about the end of the Mayan calendar in 2012 is all about―not the end of the word, but a birth of new consciousness. But I guess I will just have to wait on that. Besides it my High School 50th reunion and it’s already on my calendar. ? What is all this for? ? Why do bad things happen to good people? ? Where will I go when I die? ? Why is hindsight better than foresight? ? Why do we have to feel so badly before we know what real happiness is all about? The clue to recognizing this transition in thinking and time, is in sensing a growing tolerance for ambiguity and tentativeness. In the end, the “certainties” that we are most sure about often turn out to be partial and incomplete uncertainties over time. ~The author. We humans do seem to have a penchant for trying to understand everything. The trouble is our brains sometimes trick us into believing we actually have an accurate and complete understanding of something, when in fact we aren’t even close, except in our belief to be so. Sometimes these certainties turn out to be very big blind spots. It isn’t that we aren’t trying hard enough to see reality clearly and completely, but rather that some realities can’t be understood, at least with the type of thinking we are accustomed to using, and within our narrow timeframe. Coming to a valuable realization of the possibility that some things can’t be understood is mainly a matter of how we think and our timing. And sometimes it takes great patience to see that the main problem to all this is our impatience for quick answers to perplexing problems, the habit of which just creates the misunderstanding or worse yet, the illusion of understanding (which can oddly be the very same thing). Consider a few fundamental questions that continually perplex us,Jordan Shoes 2011, to which we often fool ourselves into believing we have the correct answers: “I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.” ~Robert McCloskey. |
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