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This treatise was posted on October 29, 2005 Laurie Weiss, Ph.D. is one internationally-known executive coach, psychotherapist, and lyricist. Learn to mention what you muse without getting launched or losing your friends. or email: feedback@laurieweiss.com Especially when you are in a situation where a misstep can occasion real problems... 1. Before you ask everything Coach Sunglasses On Sale, collect as much information as you can about a situation by scrupulous observation. * Listen to the topics that are discussed * Notice topics that are not discussed. * Pay attention to nonverbal hints -- posture, tone of voice * Notice relating power positions of the folk present in the situation -- even furniture nestle and seating preparations. 2. Think about what appended information you need to better understand the situation. Look for the lacking chips. 3. Use your intuition. What is your hunch or guess aboutwhat is going above? What do you hope you knew? 4. Ask questions only when you are really unsure of what the answers will be. 5. Listen carefully to the answers namely are presented to you. * Give it your full consideration. * Ask clarifying questions merely if you cannot know the reply you are hearing. * Wait until the answer is complete ahead you comment on it. * Treat everyone with respect - avert being condescending in anybody access. 6. Never ask a question when you are yet sure of the answer. The only cause to do this is to catch someone another doing someone bad. If you do this, others will sense it and feel resentful or put down even now you think you are being subtle. 7. Be willing to be vulnerable. Take duty for your own mistakes or absence of message. In this situation,saving face (your own) is not nearly for momentous as assisting others retention face! 8. If you feel bombarded or challenged by the answer to one of your questions, do not vindicate yourself. Respond by stating your understanding of what was said. Ask if your understanding is exact. 9. Keep querying questions until you are sure you understand what you need to know approximately the situation, and by the time others are compliant to answer to you. 10. Thank everybody who is present. Excerpted from Lesson 16 of "The Integrity Course," Copyright 2005 Laurie Weiss, Ph.D. |
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